Always a bridesmaid

Always a bridesmaid

"Always a bridesmaid never a bride". this quote has stuck with me my whole life and i mean stuck i cant seem to run away from it, and every time i think i can getaway something or someone always shows up in my life to remind me of the fact that i will always be a bridesmaid.

I know that at some point in my life i had to believe that love existed, you cant get very far with out it. with out the hope, the longing, the want, its everywhere and everyone is trying to attain it we are all after the same thing. So why is it so few people actually know the true meaning of it? If there is no one clear definition of love how do we know we found it.?

These questions have been rattling my brain for quite sometime now and the more i try to understand it the more confused i get, maybe its one of those things that we are not supposed to understand?